You must show her that you're different than the other guys, that you are not generic or boring, that she can learn something from you or grow with you, that you have a sense of adventure or creativity or spirituality. You don't have to be successful, you just have to show the potential to be successful (unless you're in your 30s, at which point you should have achieved something).ģ. So switch #2 is demonstrating to her that you have STABILITY and AMBITION. In other words, you must have a life and goals. You must show her that you have either ambition, motivation, or job/financial security. So switch #1: in order to proceed, you need SAFETY and TRUST.Ģ. Trust is an important issue for most women. So I've narrowed this down, and would love to hear thoughts and contributions:ġ. They should just be consciously flipped at some point. From it, I boiled it down to just a few main switches. That, I think, is what should be focussed on once you can get rid of the training wheels of constantly scripted sarges and learning to be cool/charming/attractive.įor a while, I've been discussing with my colleagues the SWITCHES that must be flipped in a woman in order for her to feel attraction. My concern lately has been the bigger picture in a PU.
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